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ive done that plenty times. sadly, with the so called "friends" i have... it's pretty much necessary. i also do the fake laugh when they say ridiculous stuff. i will have a sentence prepared in my mind, and then i'm like "no i better say it THIS way, so they understand"... itSucks

All people suck including myself. That's just the sad reality of how it is

I really don't understand I try my hardest to treat everyone with so much kindness. I literally treat them kinder than I treat myself. I just really don't understand why they treat me so awful. They act as if I'm a terrible person. The more I look the more I see how hated and and how many people don't like me. I don't understand I don't wanna be like one of those people and eye for an eye. But it is so hard I see myself like getting so mad and upset and its not me. I'm not that guy but its so hard not to.

Some people just need someone to hate. I don't try to rationalize irrational behavior. Great advice and very true!

SORRY GUY THAT'S NONSENSE, I HAD TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL A FEW WEEKS AGO AND MY SIS CALLED AT THAT TIME. WHAT ARE THOSE WHO I LIVE WITH TO SAY."OH, HE'S ON VACATION???!!! IF MY FRIEND IS GOING THROUGH A ROUGH TIME I WANT TO HELP AND KNOW ABOUT IT!!!

Who hurt you? Either no one cares or your just spilling out all of your pain and trauma in one youtube video, and you call yourself an author, quite hypocritical

In Australia we call this "tall poppy syndrome" Great video

Or their political beliefs change, or they become a religious zealot. Also, the Pandemic changed peoples/s mental health.

Much respect for putting on such an event.

I've outed a lot of fake gurus who claim they went through the trenches to get where they are and in reality come to find out their stories dont add up and I dig deeper and find out they are getting major help from family. so waht you said at 4:30 is definitely true. What is annoying is no matter how much proof you show the people who follow them that the guru is lying those people will never stop and use logic and look at the proof objectively. Instead they see it as an "attack" on their mentor.

They’re Clowns, just keep it Moving on them.

I fell upon this video, and NO ONE has ever explained this in such an icuteful way. I'm a subscriber now.

It’s like the time I told a person I’m financially struggling living with $790 a month and they responded to me and said” woah that’s a lot of money”

Sometimes people like to just hear themselves talk, waste of time and energy to engage these folks.

Real talk!

Thank you so much for this message. Not to reignite or put fuel to my story but i was in a situation where i was framed. It was in a workplace where i dated someone. Someone said something about me and to this day i have no idea what they said but it destroyed my reputation and was no longer welcomed back. So not only i did not hear their side but no one wants to hear my side.. my social situation is a small town so leaving was hard. Leaving the house was difficult because all i can think about was running into one of those individuals that didnt want to hear my story and doing the worst to them. As time went on that anger turned to apathy and nearly corrupted who i was and what i was about. Which previous before was all about making the world a better place. This experience has taught that there is good and evil in this world and to be mindful. But if you really want to make the world a better place you gotta be ALL about it.. no stone left unturned. Every mannerism must be in alignment with making the world a better place including when the doors are closed and no one is watching. Every fiber of your being must be that person you wish to be. And a very important question to ask yourself is: if this is the person i plan on being 5, 10 years from now, what would he be doing right now?

You are also responsible for your actions

Thank you, I’m the happy person and many can’t match my vibe. 🌸🫶🏾 so I sense a ton of people who secretly resent or overlook me because they think I’m “nice”. I used to want to change myself, dim my light so that others can “tolerate” my shine. But now I shift that audience with a quickness because so many people out here are sad and want you to be sad with them.

Great! This is the cure to busy bodies that try to tell you what to think! Thanks!!!!

Not all people, many people out there truly care!

I am close to breaking but pushing myself forward.

Agree!

What you're saying reminds me of crabs in a barrel. They always try to pull down the ones who are higher so everyone can be on the same level & miserable together

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Absolutely true. How many people do you talk to are actually interested in you? Not many eh? Most just talk about themselves. Don't rely on others as they'll ultimately let you down.

how do you find supportive people to help with your dream? that's the hardest part

I left her but i cant stop stalking her

Hello my evil parent abandoned me when i was 3 years old my father took me she looked me into a room left me for hours i was 3 years old so my dad took care of me then she cane back when i was 7 years old she wanted me to be the daughter she left my message is continue on with life because life is beautiful. Thank you.

Your a very logical person. I dig it.

nice one

Great. I'm mire advanced them most people I knew or know now. They were horrible.

So basically what you’re saying is they’re just spoiled brats they don’t really care about the feelings of Anyone and they just think they’re better than everyone and they might think they’re above the law

Ah, thank you for helping me take a step outside my self. This helps so much.

Ego can be a mofo sometimes man😂😂

Straight Gem bro….💎

Well good to know they are intimidated, that was the plan thank you❤❤❤

Make friend. It’s worth the loss

Surprising video. Less about overcoming numbness than using it for a positive end. Interesting perspective. It might not exactly be ideal, but it is a way of seeing numbness as a gift.

What does care equal? Honesty, truth? Affection, care? Time spent to listen? Physical charity? What do you need to receive or understand from someone? What is the price? Comfort is the ultimate result. Can you help? People don’t remember what you say to them.. they remember how you make them feel.

I’ve just had a situation where a girl is being really mean to me bringing up trauma past experiences in front of strangers to get a laugh at my expense. It makes so much sense now. THAnk YOU SO MUCH !!

My sister said I need to speak to my mother indirectly; this is to heal any past wounds or misunderstanding. I don't like indirect but I'm here to learn how to talk to her. My mother believes when I talk to her it is threatening and intimidating

ruclips.net/video/KBp9Zp6GqNY/видео.html. Thank you for your thoughts. I made a film about wishing you could be someone else. Some may find it interesting.

Thanks. Just a little feedback, Some of your videos will diagnose a condition but won't give the listeners active solutions to overcome the condition. This one actually does and I'm grateful for this.

People do cares Bro...Stop snitching around cos you are fu***KD Up in Careness

Thank You... I Needed to Hear That, After Breaking Up with This Guy. He'd Called Me Out of the Blue, Saying... Why Did You Take that Out of My Box!!! I'm Like... What Are You Talking About??? What Have I Suppose to Have Taken From You??? Then He Just Hung up!!! WTF... CHARACTER ASSASSINATION IS REAL!!! I'm Not Going... I've Block His Number Period!!! 👍

200% true! When my husband died they cared for about a week. Family included.

Its right, i am always treat people with nice way and care them like they are mine. But when we met at first time they treat me like they can't live without me , now they treat me poorly and ignore me at any point

I hear you sir. Truth. This is a tough lesson. People seem to be able to say whatever they want but if I say anything remotely close to or even less brash but similar to than what they said, I get the weird looks, shocked and appalled stares like I physically slapped them . Smh. I don't get why I get treated differently if I do or say the same thing other people always do or say. Or this as well. I am naturally a congratulating person. I share people's triumphs and and am genuinely happy for people, however I rarely get the same treatment. Smh. It's crazy. I'm still waiting to meet my tribe. Until then, I pray I just keep my boundaries in check to avoid putting myself out there in order to be ignored, embarrassed and or mistreated. Smh

People are focus on money and buying stuff. The little thing don’t matter. You don’t matter stuff stuf . What do you have to give me that’s all people can about.Sad

People ain’t sh!!!!